What life lesson did you learn the hard way?
07.06.2025 13:35
This was the same girl who even cheated on me in 2022 with her male bestf, which I came to know in sep 2023 from one of her classmates. I got heartbroken at that time. But she manipulated me, uploaded a sorry status and promised me to be the same old girl like before! But at what cost? By the end of december, I came to know she was cheating on me with another boy named Ansh Dubey! She never loved me since 2022 !! She blocked me on 26dec , 2023 by pretending herself to be her aunt! Things fall apart, my 4.2 years of efforts, promises, dreams, words all went in vain! I locked myself, cried like hell!! Like why God? What was my fault? Was being too loyal and kind was my fault? How can someone be so mean? So stone hearted? Idk! So I learnt, doesn't matter what you do for someone, at the end , they will still choose to leave you, once they get someone they think is better than you!
Staying in love and Loving the same person years after years ,no matter what are 2 different things. Love is not about a feeling, emotion, it's about , sacrifices, sharing your joys and sorrows and growing together! Feelings fade over time, it's not love that betrays, it's the person who betrays.
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I used to love a girl and we were together for 4.2 years and guess what? She's no more with me today ! She was the one who proposed me back in time when I was in my 10th standard and she was in her 8th standard. We went to the same school and that's from where our love story started. Everything was going good but things started taking a turn from the year 2022 , she started hiding things from me. She got more closed to her male friends, made one of them her best friend as well. I knew, her love for me was declining but being a loyal lover, I stayed true to her, I used to help her in every possible way I could. My best friend Swapnonil was against her because of her attitudes and behaviors, still I stayed with her. Slowly she lost all her friends, I still stayed with her. In the year 2023, she started ignoring me intentionally. Everytime the reason given by her was her illness because of which she used to frequently miss her schools and tutions, she used to stay in hospitals. I believed her, I stood by her side . Gradually her frequency of texting me started declining and a time came hardly we used to talk in a month, like after 14–15 days she would text saying she was in hospital and the same continued. I helped her with medical certificates as my father is a doctor so I arranged all the medicals for her every time despite of her not talking with me properly for the last 6–7 months free of cost. Things started getting worse and in the last 4–5 months, we have hardly talked for 10–12 days!! Can you believe? This was the same girl who used to talk to me for hours!!! My mental health started deteriorating and my focus from studies slowly started declining. Despite topping boards in 2022 from school, I couldn't pursue my bsc in economics because of all such things! Hence I dropped my bsc economics and changed to bba hons in 2023! I wasted my fucking one year on her man!!! Giving pujas in temple for her well being, consulting astrologers for her wellbeing, I gave all of my time, money, efforts, love to her!!! I introduced her to my parents , to my mother, she talked with my mother as well! She promised me that in dec 2023 , we will go on a food date as we haven't gone on a date since 2020!! She even promised my mother to meet her :) I was the happiest, I started making preps for the date. Then a day came in Nov2023, I went to meet her after her school and she said her aunt came to know about us and has confiscated her phn permanently, so she can't text me from now!! I got completely shattered knowing this, I even said her I can buy you a new phone, to talk to me!!! I will do that!! But she refused!!! Things continued like this, I used to meet her everyday after her school but now she used to get irritated by seeing me!! This was not the girl I loved! One fine day, she said ‘Don't you have any other thing to do? Why you always come to meet me ? Don't you have your college? ‘ These words went like a bullet, piercing deep into my heart . She physically abused me when I tried to talk to her, I said her multiple times if you don't want please breakup!!! I can't stay like this!! But she didn't!! She kept on torturing me!!
This was the status she gave on sep, 2023 when I came to know she cheated on me with her best friend in 2022.
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Ig, many of you have been through such tough times and situations, but believe me, you are special and you deserve all the love and happiness! Don't settle for less! You surely deserve someone who would care for you! Let them go, true love is not about holding back, set them free, let them do whatever they wish, work on yourself! Be the man/ woman they can't never ever afford again in the future. They will definitely regret loosing you once they get to know your value and believe me, it will happen! Just work on yourself!!
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